My new OTTB came home last week and I am absolutely thrilled. I have started putting together a basic restart plan, but I am getting some push back from my BO and others around the barn.
Horse “turns 3” tomorrow, but she actually turns 3 at the end of April. She was started very well and obviously had connections who cared about her immensely to allow her to retire after 2 races. She started breezing in July and had her last race Dec. 1.
I would consider her quite mentally mature for 2 with an amazing brain, but she looks like a baby, plays like a baby, and strings with a good 2" more to grow (15.3 now, but not filled out at all).
I don’t want to get on her until this summer after she actually turns 3. I want to turn her out and do groundwork, lunging, etc. I want her 100% verbally trained on the lunge and for us to form a trusting, confident relationship before I get on.
This summer I plan to start w/t/c, very slowly, probably one month of just w/t transitions. I’ll probably send her to my friend for a month or two of dressage training right before she turns 4 next year.
From there, we will decide if we want to jump at all. If she seems interested, I will send her to an eventing trainer I know for a month or two when she turns 5. This trainer is close enough that I could do some lessons throughout training, too.
Anyway- my BO/friends think I should be riding her now. POV is that she has been getting ridden, so why not keep her going?
I have only gotten war horses off the track before- so I have given them a week or two to get settled then got started. I feel like this is much different- yes, she has been started, but I feel like she has been gifted the chance to slow down and grow up. I have no timeframe or specific goals, I want to take the time to allow her to develop. I want to give her the best life possible- including the best start. If she ends up being particularly talented in something, I want to move in that direction. If she ends up being a fun ride in my backyard, that’s fine too.
Am I being to cautious? I tend to be someone who doesn’t push myself.
Am I wrong and overthinking?