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.I am sitting in my chair wondering how I could get contact in front of my inseam. [/QUOTE]
Guys, there’s a trick to it and it IS about how western saddles are built and not how we are (although the poster who mentioned sitting on your pubic bone in the show ring - ouch, and double ouch for guys)
Here is how I teach people to sit a western saddle, step by step;
Stand up in the stirrups and tuck your bottom under you. Tip your pelvis a tiny bit, kind of clench a little and sit back on your natural cushioning.
Take your foot out of the stirrup, bring your leg up to the cantle and then let your leg slide down to a natural position.
Repeat for the other leg.
*there is a kind of groove in a western saddle, you will not see it but when you do this your leg will naturally find it and the long muscle on the inside of your thigh will lie along it. This is different from the English position and quite frankly not what will get you a ribbon in a Western Pleasure show but is nevertheless correct for the saddle.
Then, moving your leg only from the knee down, reach back, pick up your stirrup and drop your heel.
You will quite likely find that you will want to let your stirrups down a notch when you are in this, correct, position.
You will instantly feel far more secure in the saddle and kind of “locked in”. You will also feel like you are leaning back at an angle and may be tempted to hollow out your back to correct for this.
You are fine.
You DO want to keep a straight line from shoulder, hip to heel but unlike in English or pleasure shows, you do NOT want that line to be perfectly perpendicular to the horse. You do want to angle back at the slightest angle and I promise you it is not as extreme as it feels at first (likely, no one looking at you will notice, really)
Also, ONLY in this position can you properly do a western post to the trot, which you do by pushing your heels down with the trot and not raising your seat out of the saddle. The action of your heels will feel as if you are pushing yourself back into the cantle a bit, and you are, as a secondary action. Just like learning to post English, it feels strange and awkward at first, and then once you get the hang of it it’s far easier on you and your horse and becomes so natural you have to think about it to not just automatically do it.