Horseless rider in Toms River, NJ
Hey all. I’m a horseless rider in Toms River, NJ, looking for something within a half hour drive or so - maybe up to 45 min - to ride casually. I am almost 20 years old and have been riding VERY on and off for six years… I’ve never seen a show ring and I jumped maybe three times over itty bitty crossrails more than three and a half years ago or so, maybe, and haven’t seen a fence since. Of course, none of this was by choice on my part. Go figure.
I’m an intermediate rider that can be a little timid at times. Two solid years out of the saddle broke my confidence completely. I’ve spent the last year and change trying to fix myself whenever I had the opportunity to ride, but every time I start to really trust the horse I wind up losing it. I’m mostly better, though…
I am a very sensible, responsible rider who needs a little time to get accustomed to a horse before getting any kind of adventurous. Adventurous, for me, is leaving the ring with the horse, basically. I ride with very soft hands and a quiet leg… at least as quiet as the horse will let me be.
I am a very quiet person that outgrew petty highschool drama before I even entered high school.
I am not looking to pay or be paid. I’m really just kind of hoping somebody out there has a nice horse that isn’t really getting enough attention, or they have an extra horse but no trail riding buddy, something casual… I know it’s a long shot but I gotta give it a try. The weather is finally starting to cool off so I have to get back in the saddle. All summer… no riding.
I might be willing and able to negotiate some light work in exchange for an informal lesson every now and then.
Email x.synaxis.x@hotmail.com if you have something.