Hi guys,
In September my husband was in a horrific car accident in which he had a moderate to severe brain injury (DAI). His PT and his doctor have recommended using horses and riding to help with his recovery. He has ridden his horse twice since the accident and while I have felt it went well, he is pretty upset about it.
His balance is tough and he is having a hard time following the motion of the horse. In addition, nerve damage to his left shoulder make it painful to use. Little things, like picking his feet, are hard for DH now. He has yet to be able to successfully put on a heavyweight blanket, although he does help with feeding, filling hay bags, etc.
Luckily, he has a gem of a horse who is patient, kind, and doesn’t mind if DH accidentally kicks him as he gets on or off, doesn’t care how many tries it takes to get saddled, etc.
I want to do my best to help him and make riding more successful for him - but how?
Things I am doing so far:
- holding horse while he gets on/off
- going on low stress trail rides where we walk only
- putting his horse back in a western bridle with curb bit and gaming reins so he can neck rein with only the right hand
I just want to help him, but he said its like he has never ridden before. He is having a really hard time following the motion. And prior to this, he was comfortable riding my young hunter right after breaking him to saddle - so he was a very decent rider.
Thanks for any ideas!