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…Knowing horses, if I saw a horse spook and end up on my lawn or hay I’d be fine with it, but not everybody understands horses.[/QUOTE]
Same here. But what if I happened to look out into the yard only after the spook had happened? All I’d see is someone riding well inside the boundary of my field, and I’d have an entirely different reaction. Of course, I hope that I’d listen and tone down my reaction when the rider said I’m so sorry my horse spooked.
But I would not be very charitable if they gave me a snotty non-apology, the kind that communicates “come ON, I obviously didn’t do any harm, so your anger is not justified”. Those are the exact words of every single yahoo who feeds your horse carrots over the fence, or climbs into your pasture to let their kids pet the friendleeee horsies. Usually followed by “Oh, don’t worry, I know horses.”
The OP is very obviously not ignorant or inconsiderate. But there are lots of inconsiderate riders out there so it behooves us to go above and beyond and sometimes turn the other cheek, as representatives of our sport.