Much will depend on what kind of repairs are needed, severity of the problem starting out. Another issue might be HOW the Dr. repairs you, technique or method of repairing.
I am going to say I am an “experienced” person with 4 rotator cuff surgeries in the family members here. We used the same surgeon for all the repairs. They each had various kinds of injuries, from worn out, torn, ripped loose. So whatever the method this Dr used, they all were recovering in pretty good shape within 5 days. 3 of the 4 repairs were doing finger walking up the wall in the recovery room. They needed to be doing this as much as possible until they got to PT with trained persons. The 4th surgery required anchoring the shoulder blade down with bone anchors, so she couldn’t lift arm for a few weeks to let bone anchors get set and growing in.
If possible, you really NEED to have another person around for a couple days to aid you with food, meds tracking, watching and changing dressings. Having them help you with an Ice Jacket will greatly relieve a lot of pain by freezing your injured area for short times. Our ice jacket has been loaned out a LOT to shoulder repaired friends who LOVED having it available. Just so much EASIER if the second person can lift and lower the ice water resevoir to allow water changes while you wear it.
Husband is a very fast healer, no matter what happens to him. He was back to light work (Farrier) within two weeks, and doing PT as well. Son was back mostly to normal within two weeks, but he was student, not working hard physically, kept up with PT for 6 weeks. He had a moderately hard surgery, needed the pain pump tube run WAY DOWN inside for direct application of the meds. He was pretty glad to have the extra meds, but his repair was different than the others. DD had her shoulder blade anchors put in after ripping things loose in HS Swimming. So she took the longest to repair because arm had to be kept immobile so long. Couple month of PT, 3 days a week.
I did chores. They PROBABLY could have dragged bales around, but handling horses would have been unsafe since all we had were quite young and silly then. One jerk would have gotten them in trouble during those first few days of healing.
Better to board for a short time or have a person come in to do chores for you during that first couple weeks to be safe.
I watched them all get back into things rather quickly I thought, compared to other folks with the same kinds of surgery. So MANY had to be arm immobile, then it was the DEVIL to free up frozen muscle and joints.
You need to find some MEAN PT folks, maybe Sports Medicine Therapy places that will get you going. You shouldn’t be hearing “Poor thing” from your Therapist because you MUST work thru some severe pain to improve well, get back to a good use of the arm and shoulder again. We don’t use the local Hospital PT because they are just FULL of excuses why you don’t improve, have no better methods to fix things! There is a GREAT Sports Medicine PT place nearby, who can almost work miracles if you do as they tell you. Be DEMANDING on improving, know what is going on, it is YOUR body and you want it to come back 99-100% after the repairs. Don’t be passive or wimpy, you WILL be sorry later. Continue the exercises after PT ends, they will keep you working those parts, stretched out for better mobility.
I just don’t want you overdoing yourself, within the first few days of surgery. They call it Outpaitient, but it STILL is hard on you, you need to rest and recover a bit before pushing yourself. Every patient is different in recovery rates, what they have done to recover from. So take the needed time to get a good start on the process, don’t work on chores to reinjure yourself. You are NOT at your best or even at “normal” for a bit. Take your antibiotics and pain meds ON TIME, REGULARLY to let your body rest from the hurting. Eat and drink often, stay hydrated as you heal.
Here at least, things started improving about the 3rd day for them. But I didn’t expect anything from them while they recovered. Letting them do any kind of chores was not on their list of “healing activities”. Ha Ha.
Good luck with your surgery, get in some help for you and equines!! Maybe if horse was boarded or had a sitter, you could stay at a Rehab place for a few days and have help at hand until you improve to go home.