I don’t believe so, she wants him to stretch into the contact, but she doesn’t want him to cheat it? She says sometimes the contact will get heavy, but the goal is for it to be light.
I do know of people who purposefully train BTV, thinking they can then push the horse forward . . . but IMHO it is just wrong.
That’s kind of what I thought, which is why I’d asked her about it. But she said for now it is okay. It /was/ a good ride, other than that, I thought. (weather has not let me ride since).
I think of a couple things in terms of softening the neck. One is that lateral flexibility comes before longitudinal flexibility. Is she doing lateral work? Flexion exercises in-hand or under saddle? “Untracking” of the hind end and getting him to step over/underneath himself? Softening of the neck doesn’t come from pulling the head down or going BTV . . . or if it does, then you are developing the wrong set of muscles. Softening of the neck comes from behind and is a result of the horse properly stepping underneath his center of gravity, lifting through the ribcage and withers, and lateral flexion.
Just like riding. If you are having a problem with stiffness in your hands or arms, don’t look at those as the solution - look further into the body to the head, neck, and shoulders and softness in the arms and hands will result.
It is time for me to go to bed, I may not be making any sense (and I didn’t even have anything to drink!)
We were working on him flexing one way and then the other smoothly. He kind of braces when we go from a bend to going in a straight line. We did a lot of random circles to straight lines to more circles and it /was/ better by the end of the ride. She has been trying to have him work the muscles over the top of his neck more rather than the under side.
When I ride by myself I try to ask him to step his hind end under/over often.
I’m still torn as to whether I want to continue with lessons for now or play on my own