For context, I live in a remote area without consistent fitter visits. I haven’t found anyone able to help or make suggestions with this, which is fair - if they don’t stock anything and aren’t aware of anything that would work I won’t expect miracles.
I’m at a point where I’m wondering if people are just being polite and not just saying this particular horse and I aren’t going to be a fit physically.
We’ve had limited success with Amerigo and Harry Dabbs, but there hasn’t been a long term solution. Both were realistically too long but the balance was forward so we got away with it short term. Mare eventually did get sore over her lumbar while we looked for better options, so I don’t want to repeat that experiment.
The basics of my question: oversized GRP mare has 15" space for her saddle. I’m needing a 17.5" seat. In fairness I could lose weight, but the reality is even at my tiniest we’re maybe looking at a generous 17", so a minimum 2" difference between her back and my saddle (pretending panels are same length as tree). Is that even a possibility, especially long term as the primary rider? I’ve read the SMS recommends shortening the panel no more than 1/2" smaller than tree size, and I’m not sure how the math really works as far as me being adult sized and the balance/weight distribution on a really short panel.
My bigger picture question I guess is just because I could in theory have a saddle custom made, should I? Does it make sense? Is there a point where we just say the rider doesn’t fit the horse?