Spent a while on USEF/SafeSport site and maybe I’m just not looking in the right place but… a junior rider at my barn offered to dogsit for my husband and I for a few hours while we go out after I posted on social media we were looking for a sitter. This would be paid. I believe I need to have another adult on the text thread arranging logistics right (does my husband count)? And is this even allowed? Sorry for the basic questions- am coming back to the sport as an amateur after a very long time away and am still memorizing all the SS rules!
I’d say text jr rider’s mom or dad.
This makes the most sense to me. You could also include your DH just so he knows exactly what is going on.