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The burning question seems to be if OP has been to see horse in this time, if not because of OPâs own accord or at the direction of the seller? If barred by the seller, then Iâd walk. If not, has OP been to see the horse to confirm this delay is a cough, or something more.
Feelings aside, I go with fact. Yes buying a horse is emotional, but itâs also hugely financial.[/QUOTE]
This is a good way forward. If you really think this is the one, insist that you need to visit her just as she is now, coughs, sneezes and all. Assure the seller you are serious about her and want to understand her current situation first hand. You may have to insist, and it may be a drive, but if she is the one it will be worth it regardless of the outcome of the eventual sale.
Itâs understandable that (a) horse gets sick at the WORST time because that is what horses do, and (b) the seller doesnât want the sale to fall through because of a ppe that was done before the horse fully recovered, when a wait would have had a different result.
I think youâll feel more sure of which way to go with this if you see her yourself. If you are satisfied she just has a bug and needs time, discuss with the seller how to go forward with the ppe, and when. Once you see her perhaps youâll decide to wait a month and then assess her condition and whether you still want to go on to a ppe. Or maybe it isnât much, and you do the ppe right now, as is, and let the vet give an opinion on her illness along with everything else.
You just need your own first hand information to assess if the illness is a dealbreaker or not. Would you feel comfortable looking her over by video, perhaps, and save the trip? Maybe video, then a trip?
If the seller is resistant to your visit, in your place I would simply say that either I visit or the sale is off and I move on to other horses. That her illness is not necessarily a dealbreaker, so long as I get to stay close to her situation and satisfy myself firsthand that she will be ok.