I’m not sure what category to put this topic in but I guess I just wanted to bounce my thoughts off some others who don’t know me and will hopefully be non-biased. I’m a dressage professional and have been in the business a long time. I’m not very competitive anymore but I do have my bronze and silver medals and have trained horses through the FEI levels. I apologize in advance for the novel I’m about to write:
The horse in question is a coming three year-old I bred and raised on the small farm I have at my house. He’s an interesting case in that he was born early and received steroids immediately after birth. In addition, his dam retained her placenta and was in a tremendous amount of pain for the first week after giving birth so was on banamine as well as other medications. The colt developed ulcers within 24 hours of birth and coliced severely. He was on Gastrogard for a couple months. He also developed an umbilical infection.
To make matters worse, my retired FEI gelding came down with potomac 4 days after this colt was born and died. He was the only other full-sized horse on this small farm (only my personal retired horses live here) so my colt’s dam became extremely upset at suddenly being the only large horse left on the farm (there was also a pony but he clearly didn’t count).
The mare eventually settled down and the pony and my colt bonded but I believe some of these initial experiences affected this colt’s personality. Additionally, in spite of the care given to heal the colt’s hindgut he has continued to be prone to attacks of colitis of unknown origin. The colt does have a deformity of his sheath so it is possible that he has other deformities or internal strictures causing these attacks but he also tends to have a nervous temperament and if he is pushed to hard with training that will also cause him to colic.
I would like to send this colt to someone to have him started under saddle as I broke my neck in a fall on the ice several years ago (not horse related) and prefer to not start young horses any more but I’m very concerned about sending him away and the stress causing a severe colic episode. I know his limits and how far he can be pushed but I’m just not sure someone else is going to understand or respect those limits.
I don’t want to be a “helicopter” owner but I also don’t want to kill my youngster just to get him trained. I could wait longer to see if some more maturity would help or I could possibly try to start him myself but I feel that might not be the wisest solution. Wondering what others might do in a similar situation.