I don’t know how else to say this other than to start from the beginning and write a novel…
In May of 2016 I purchased a QH gelding, his name is Wrigley. Wrigley is 8 years old but more like a 4 year old between the ears. As far as I know (this could all be false because I’m getting this info second hand) he was broke for WP as a 2 year old, got injured at age 3 and was put out to pasture to heal and “grow up”. At 5 he was pulled out of the field to start being trained again but the person who had him was intimidated. So, again he sat for another year. At 6 he was pulled out again and started trail riding and contesting (mainly barrels). For a year he trail rode and ran barrels but in January of 2016 he dumped his owner at the first barrel and the owner decided to sell him. Right before I purchased Wrigley, someone had been working with him on some western and ranch riding…when I went to see him, she had him going in a tom thumb-style bit which he didn’t look totally displeased with, although I noticed that he was gritting his teeth, A LOT. Everything I do with him now is done is a plain O-ring snaffle.
My goal with this guy is to turn him in to a confident trail rider and show him at some local ranch and fun shows. He has a wonderful jog and extended trot. He’s built to bring his hocks way up under him so I KNOW he can lope slowly and controlled, although we haven’t quite harnessed that yet. He’s also built like a powerhouse with a big hip. He has quite a bit of endurance and stamina as well. Wrigley is SMART…almost too smart. He knows how to “grill my cheese”, but he also enjoys being a good boy. At first he and I didn’t speak the same language at all. It’s taken a very long time to bond with him and control my emotions when I’m riding him…which leads me to the whole point of this post.
Wrigley is a sensitive guy. He wants to be good because he hates when you’re mad. He gets VERY reactive if he thinks you are mad at him. He starts gritting his teeth, throwing his head, balling up his neck, he gets prance-y and very, very hot headed. This makes it hard to correct him. The first time to go to correct him with something he might be ok with it, but the second time he immediately over-reacts and starts doing his “reactive dance”. We’ve been working on contact and he’s gotten better but he still HATES when you are in his mouth too much. A lot of this has been happening lately as we work on the lope. If I leave him alone and let him do his thing then he goes mach-speed which does neither of us favors. If I try half-halting he gets upset. I try to hold him together with my seat and legs, but I can only do that for so long before I need some rein aid.
Wrigley is even over-reactive to my seat and leg cues at times. For example, if I lightly bump him with my inside leg at the walk to move him over to the rail he will turn his whole body to the rail and stop. If I bump him with my inside leg and also hold the inside rein still with some light contact to keep him from completely turning, he grits hit teeth.
I feel stuck between a rock and a hard place. I can’t tell if he’s playing me or not. I can’t correct him too much without him getting hot and upset. I’m not sure what to do here. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TIA