I sew all my grand daughter’s showmanship outfits. She has a bay BSP, no papers, and the type of showing she does is local youth shows --no World, no Congress, nothing big. But she LOVES showing and going to shows --maybe more to see all the kids as much as showing her horse. Her best class is showmanship --and she is EXCELLENT --she works and works with her horse to perfect every movement until they look like two dancers in the ring --perfectly in sync. They win --not every time, but most of the time.
In the fall we plan her next year’s outfit based on what others are wearing, her horse’s beautiful dun color --always striving to make sure grand daughter stands out --it’s easy to be lost in the crowd when the horse is a small, quiet dun.
Usually, she chooses color well --white and red, teal, purple, and one year orange. Last year she went red --really a nice choice. This year is the problem.
I just finished her showmanship outfit as she wanted it --GREY! Yes, there is a white collar, but she wanted GREY with black applique and (shudder) black studs. No bling, no flash. To me it looks like a church outfit a preacher might wear --well, maybe not the black studs, but certainly the white collar, and black applique on a grey background. She’ll wear a white hat, although we do have a grey one --I’d hope she wouldn’t choose it.
I think the color is a huge mistake. I think she’s going to blend in, not stand out.
Should I keep my big granny mouth shut, and hope that her performance outshines her lack of flashy outfit? In showmanship there is a mark for wearing something that complements one’s horse --I don’t think she’ll LOSE points --but I’m not sure she’ll be noticed either.
I have a lovely lavender fabric put back that I can sew up with white applique –
Anyway, she’s sixteen, such a nice girl --as a Granny, I want to do what I can to make her horse showing fun and successful. But I want to acknowledge that she is capable of making her own decisions and living with the consequence.
Make the second outfit and hope she changes her mind? Or, as they say in Frozen . . .let it go . . . .
Foxglove