Yep, I love our two shoodles! We didn’t set out to get them, but that was what we ended up with from this particular rescue. I would never pay thousands of dollars for a mutt, but I adore our dippy doodles.
I do think that one reason that doodles end up getting a bad rap is that people breed lots of totally random breeds to poodles and don’t care about temperament, conformation, or anything with the parents, so what comes out is a total crapshoot. Our youngest spent his early months in a small, filthy cage in a barn and while he is exceptionally sweet and quite smart, we had to do a lot of work to socialize him as much as we could since he was already four months old when we got him. Had he not ended up with responsible owners who are very used to large, active dogs (and, because we always rescue, our guys are often from not the best background), he might have turned out very differently. He needs structure and lots of exercise and so on, and without that he would probably be a bit of a monster. Our older guy was dragged around to the barn and competitions and everywhere with me for his first year and that absolutely helped him become a good citizen, instead of a rambunctious, obnoxious dingbat with bad eyesight. Well, he still has bad eyesight and is a dingbat, but he’s a well-behaved dingbat!
Cute doesn’t translate into trained, but I guess people somehow think if they spend thousands on this fluffy little bear the puppy will automatically turn into the perfect dog without any work from them. Sadly not the case, so there are lots of young doodles ending up in rescues or shelters that now need all of the things they didn’t get: training and socialization, and I think that is going to keep getting worse.
As far as the “doodle cut” I think groomers just assume that is what you want, instead of a poodle puppy cut. Our older one has wiry hair, but the youngest has the curly poodle hair and I just want it clipped down, instead of this massive afro and huge puffy feet! He does look very cute, but his hair is ridiculous.