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I’m at a loss where you read anything into this where I was uncomfortable with his trot. I’m doing very well in comparison to my previous November attempts.
I’m not currently working with a trainer. I’m not sure where that has any relevance to my question. All I asked was how much I should be actively following versus passive.[/QUOTE]
I think you are being a little sensitive to what M is trying to say. If I am following her train of thought- she was saying: get used to his trot-in this case sitting- before trying to be active in raising/lowering/dropping hips etc while you are working the sitting trot. And (not putting words in her mouth) was theorizing that perhaps this is something your trainer would have discussed. Obviously since you are not working with a trainer - null and void but a legitimate pondering, IMO.
The “comfortable” part, is more likely - get used to practicing it. Not that you are “uncomfortable” with it, but making it more of a habit (?) and really used to it in practice so you have a good feel of how to work on it. Are you bouncing out of the saddle? Sliding? Just not “with the motion” type of comfortable, as in- can you identify WHAT exactly you are struggling with so you know how to work on it.
I didn’t take it as trying to be offensive in any way.
I commend you on NSNovember. It is a month the kids dread 