I am looking for some guidance on a couple issues I haven’t dealt with in a long time. My last horse I owned for almost 8 years and raised from a foal, she was very lazy and I was always working to drive her forwards, but she was extremely well broke and I could literally ride her off seat & leg alone.
I purchased an unbroke 4 year old in June, did a ton of groundwork with her for the first 2 months and started her under saddle late in the summer. I don’t have much history on this horse, I purchased her from a girl who said she was helping out a friend sell some horses (but now found out she is a self-admitted horse flipper). My new mare was hardly halter broke when I got her, hard to catch, touchy around her back end, and extremely head shy. We are still working on the head shy issue, but she’s now much more relaxed with handling and definitely more trusting. She is a spooky horse, and very sensitive, basically the polar opposite of my last mare. She has a good heart, has not once offered to buck or rear throughout her training, and I really trust her, despite her sometimes nervous tendencies. In October, I moved her from a boarding barn with 35 horses, to my acreage. She was not at all happy alone, so I ended up quickly purchasing a second 13 year old horse mostly as a companion, but also as a second horse for my friends/family to ride. The second horse is definitely the boss mare, and my first horse has become her shadow. Second horse was owned by a very novice rider the past 6 years, and at one point was well trained, but hasn’t had anything serious asked of her for 6 years
So that’s the background, and now for the questions!
When I take the first mare out, she is constantly jigging, trying to speed up and turn back home, to get to her new BFF. If she breaks into a trot, I either half halt her back to a walk or circle/disengage hindquarters. She is very compliant, but a few seconds later she will try again. If I do ask her to trot, she speeds up and wants to rush into a lope right away. I never let her pick the speed but it’s frustrating constantly circling to try and slow her down. She doesn’t seem to ever get tired either. On the way back home she will settle into a fast walk, but as soon as I ask for a trot, it instantly turns into a rushy, strung out effort to lope. There was one time I asked her to lope, let her go and we went for about 3 miles before she started to show any sign of tiring. So far I’ve been focusing on lots of transitions, changing directions, and doing everything I can to keep her busy and responsive, which works when we’re on a circle, but I really struggle with our straight lines at the trot and don’t know what I should be doing differently.
Horse #2 is also a very energetic mare, she is not as herd bound, but also always wants to rush forwards into the lope. Her mouth is so hard from the previous owners riding, and she did not know how to disengage hindquarters or bend to a stop when I first got her, so that was the first thing we focused on. I can now get her to whoa from a walk just using my seat, but any faster than that there’s no chance. She doesn’t know what a half halt is, and braces against the bit like she thinks I’m going to haul on her to slow down. She is out of shape but has a ton of energy and surprising stamina. What is the best way to soften her mouth and become more responsive to my seat at the trot/lope?
Thanks in advance… Sorry this got so long, I’m basically alone in my riding endeavours so don’t have anyone to talk to about my issues!