This is a spin off from the Adult Safety Stirrups thread in Hunter/Jumper.
The OP there describes themselves as a 55 year old adult total beginner, who in three months of lessons twice a week is now jumping cross poles (not sure from a trot or a canter). That’s about 25 hours in the saddle.
I returned to riding about 12 years ago, and have since seen many many adult beginners and returning riders in their 40s and 50s, and have never seen anyone progress this quickly. So I was curious about other people’s experience with this.
When I was a teen and we were feral kids trail riding, my experience was it took about a month of daily riding several hours a day for young teens to “get their balance” and let go of the mane or saddle horn, what I’d now call an independent seat. Of course we had no idea of aids or anything at that point, just good balance! We certainly weren’t ready to also ride circles in an arena. Now maybe if we had longe lessons and instruction on our seat and position, it would have gone faster.
Anyhow, curious what older adults have found the general timeline to be. Whem I returned, it took me two years of twice weekly lessons to feel solid enough to start looking for lease horses to ride unsupervised and on trails.
However, I had also made a swtich to h/j lessons after growing up mostly riding Western, and having Western yahoo reflexes I had to unlearn.