Sorry to hear your hubby is dealing with this. I have this and know many people who also do. It is fairly common in Ehlers Danlos Syndrome patients, especially the hypermobility form I have.
What has helped me:
- Avoid laying on my stomach for any significant length of time. I learned this the scary way at camp at 17. I layers on my stomach talking for hours and my back spasms eventually loosened enough that I felt my lower back KLUNK and knew it wasn’t good. About an hour later I tried too be to get up and couldn’t. Having no idea the gravity of the situation a counselor who happened to be a paramedic helped me up. I believe in divine intervention and thank God I didn’t paralyze myself because my lumbar spine shifted back in place as I was lifted by two men.
Fast forward 15 years and an Ehlers Danlos diagnosis finally explained that event.
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A GOOD PT or chiro who specializes in Spinal Rehab. They are rare gems and not easy to find but worth their weight in gold. Not all PT is created equal. Some people have a true gift to heal.
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Epsom salt baths. Our muscles work overtime trying to stabilize a hugely important part of the body. It SHOULD be stable but for us it is not. Sooo… muscles work non stop to do the work ligaments and tendons and naturally fused pieces should. I buy my “magnesium sulfate” in bulk at the feed mill. 2 cups in a warm bath before bed almost daily. The muscles are almost always Mg deficient and blood tests don’t reveal Mg levels IN muscle.
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A recumbent trike. This type of bike was not cheap BUT it is suitable for me and my multiple disabilities. I can no longer ride any sort of upright bike. Being able to get out and exercise on my trike (short and slow rides) has rebuilt some lost muscle on my entirely numb left leg for the first time in 20 years. That muscle has helped other issues including my back.
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Avoiding surgery until absolutely left with no other option. I had a tethered spinal cord and MAJOR nerve issues in both legs. I put off the L4/5/S1hemilaminectomy until I had NOTHING to lose except my life. My best hope was to STOP the progression of issues. I understood I may end up paralyzed but with my loss of use of legs I was headed that way to being in my chair full time within a year anyway.
Those spaces subsequently collapsed after surgery BTW due to their already unstable nature, herniated, and dedicated discs. Still… I have more function and less pain than before surgery.
The spine rehab specialists I see have saved me from surgery on my cervical spine so far when almost everyone I know with my issues has been fused from skull to C2 and then subsequently C5/6 because of extra wear and tear to that area after fusion.
Fusion in my mind should be a last option because it cannot be undone. It also seems to have a tendency to transfer the load bearing and instability to surrounding vertebra. I would urge you and ypur husband to exhaust ALL options before fusion. In my case that includes two trips a year to Baltimore to see the two leading experts on my Ehlers Danlos and the neurological issues it causes. Ironically, I see my neurosurgeon twice a year to AVOID surgeries.
Best of luck to you both. Oh, my other life saver is the 2’ x 3’ infrared heating pad made by Venture Heat. I sleep with it on low across my lower back and hips most of the year and after two weeks I see improvement in my neuro pain and after 4 weeks of use I often am damn near free of certain types of neuro pain. (Trust me o know what a bitch neuro pain is. Nobody likes having hot pokers jammed in their nervous system. At least that’s what it feels like to me.)