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Sounds like he needs blinkers. Just French cup, to shield the view of the rider from his eye. It’s a band aid solution, but in the long run, he will become more accustomed to the FEEL of being ridden, and relax about that, if he can’t SEE the thing that is scaring him, the SIGHT of the rider. While using this band aid solution, you have the chance to show him how be ridden, to respond adequately to the cues you give him, and reward him for that. He begins to understand what you want from him. When he is secure in that knowledge, and comfortable with being ridden with the blinkers, you can start to reduce the size of the blinkers, to “cheaters” or “no see backs”, smaller than French cups. He can see more. He can see you at times, if he turns his head a bit. When he becomes comfortable with that, you can probably remove the blinkers entirely, and he will be OK.
I had one who was like this, bolted the first time I rode him in an open arena. And wouldn’t let anyone come near him on the ground either. A race prospect, coming 2 yrs old. Any time I moved on him, he would bolt again. I was on his back for an hour and a half, because I could not get off. I did not want to get off during a bolt or throw myself to the ground from speed. So I stayed on. But any attempt to get him near a handler on the ground resulted again in a bolt, OR, he was going to throw himself over backwards if held. So, eventually, I got him back to a stall (it took two tries to get him back to the barn, a bolt had to be aimed back into the arena the first time) and into a stall, so that I could get OFF. He needed blinkers. The blinkers helped him to relax, allow the riding, until he got “broke” enough to ride without them.
Also, riding with some atravet will help also to get you through those first few rides with less stress on his part. Let him experience some stress free riding sessions. Not enough to make him “sleepy”, just enough to reduce his stress, take the fight out of him, let him relax. Then wean him off it in the coming weeks, as the two of you experience successful and stress free rides.[/QUOTE]
The stall idea - this is something I have done with a difficult horse for mounting and dismounting. Obviously make sure that it is a safe stall, and your ground person has an opportunity to jump out and away but it gives him less opportunity to take off.
Just practise your mounting and dismounting in there until he settles.