Okay - a lot to write here but I think the details are important to the story. I recently purchased a medium pony mare - she’s 6, 13.2, and welsh/QH. I bought her very lightly started and with a buck, but that was the only behavioral issue disclosed to me. It only happened twice and the previous owner was confident that it was a lack of consistency in her riding and not a reflection of the pony - I agreed. Previous owner was incredibly transparent and I’m confident I was not lied to (not my first rodeo, I promise!!)
Fast forward to now: I’ve had her for about 5 weeks and doing a lot of groundwork before I very slowly restart her as a hunter. I want her to have the tools and the confidence for an uneventful reintroduction to ridden work. However, she is incredibly spooky and reactive, particularly to sound. Walking into and spending time in the barn makes her nervous, she paces in the stall, I can’t imagine cross-tying her because she’s unpredictable and will jump out of the wash stall as soon as she hears something, and walking to the round pen which is within 200 yards of her pasture is a no-go. Her spook is an explosion and is typically unwarranted given the stimuli (ie. a horse sneezing in the pasture down the hill from the wash stall where she’s standing).
Usually things behind her cause the most anguish - I was able to walk her towards the round pen the other day and while she was nervous, she obliged. However, after I praised her, turned around to walk back to her pasture, and what she was nervous about was behind her, she lost it - bucked, ran circles, stood up, etc. There wasn’t any sound or real event that prompted this - just turned to walk away since she was good and I felt no need to make her walk any closer.
Also important to note that she was turned out for a year prior to coming to this farm and lived in her old home for 4 years. I expected her to take awhile to settle and be a little uneasy in the barn, but this is beyond just adjustment anxiety.
Because she was previously sat on by children (I have a photo of a child standing on her back), and I’ve seen videos of her in training as a 2 y/o, I know the level-headed pony I believe her to be is in there somewhere, but I’m really not sure how to get her out of the insecure, irreverent pony that I’m dealing with now.
Just wondering if anyone has dealt with something similar or what suggestions are out there. Are there some great youtube videos about insecure horses? Regumate? Neuro?
Editing to add a little more info since I think initial post was misleading in some ways. Previous owners bought her as a 2 y/o after breeder had sent her to a trainer when she was 2. A lot of ground work and pulling a cart, since that was the breeders interest. She wasn’t started under saddle by the previous owners till age 4. Was lightly started from 4-5, and then turned out from 5-6.
In the previous home she was sent to a trainer a few times in short bursts (like, 2 weeks at a time) and they were able to ride and work with her without issue. She also shipped 8 hours and was ponied on the beach during her off year. She’s been sitting, yes, but she has traveled and settled in much shorter timeframes before.
Also don’t want to sound like I expect her to be settled by now. I do not - she spent an entire year out and now has spent a month at the new place. But, I do need her to be predictable enough that I feel like I can have someone come trim her, vaccinate her, etc. without putting them in danger.
She’s had tons of groundwork and desensitization in previous homes - you can put your hands all over her, lay on her, toss towels all over her, and she really can’t be bothered. She’s also naturally curious - loves to put her nose on things when we walk in the wash stall and barn, will knock over pitchforks with her nose and is completely unbothered by the sound when it’s her own doing.
She’s very friendly and has come to like me - comes to me in the field as soon as she sees me, nuzzles me whenever I’m working with her, relaxes the second I put a brush on her, etc. but as soon as she gets scared, she no longer respects me as the leader and I can’t get through to her.
I guess my question is less “why isn’t my horse settled!!!” and more “how can I help her not shut down as she settles?”