I believe I attended this show. Said Trainer won the High Score Trainer, and also won the Mini Prix. Said Trainer’s clients also won quite a few ribbons. Said Trainer had upwards of 12 horses and ponies entered. I believe OP attended the show as a competitor, and did the MiniPrix. So Said Trainer may not have been a complete stranger to OP as Said Trainer’s clients were in many classes, as was Said Trainer.
There are two issues for which OP is concerned we are not in agreement with her.
First, the use of spurs placed upside down. The phrase being used is “incorrect tack.” Correct tack is a phrase used commonly for appointment classes and sidesaddle. Spurs are allowed in hunter and jumper competitions. So they are not incorrect.
Is there a hunter/jumper rule outlining the manner of wear for spurs? There is not. A rider may wear just one spur if so desired. A rider may wear one spur high, and the other spur low. A rider may wear spurs above the spur rest on the boot, or just above the sole of the boot. I could make a Dr. Seuss rhyme out of this, but I won’t.
OP was attempting to assist a trainer regarding a rule that doesn’t exist, and did not get a grateful “thank you.” Nor did the trainer instantly help the clients switch the spurs to a more traditional method of wear. Other than to say, “Dualy noted…” there is no need for Said Trainer to argue the rules with OP if Said Trainer knows differently.
It matters not if OP hypothesized if Said Trainer perhaps intentionally wears spurs upside down himself or herself. OP didn’t observe Said Trainer wearing spurs upside down. Or even comment if Said Trainer had spurs on at all during OP’s passing conversation with Said Trainer. Or I am guessing we would have read about that, too.
The next question is one of etiquette. OP, in her own words decided to “approach” Said Trainer and “…just mention in passing.” If OP’s intent was to be helpful, and she was ignored…well, OP gets points for trying. The road to Hell is paved with good intentions, as they say.
However, as a fellow adult competitor, with years of competing under her belt, if OP had a problem, real or perceived, OP should not have confront Said Trainer or ANY trainer or competitor a 3 ring show with 400 competitors spread out over 3 days, and with a gaggle of friends, family, and folks out to have a nice weekend…all standing around within earshot of Said Trainer to provide “passing information.”
As OP is a seasoned competitor, she would (or should) know to go show management via the secretary’s stand. Or, for immediate communication, OP could easily go to any one of the in-gate personnel with walkie-talkies to have them instantly relay OP’s concern for review by the proper set of ears. Thus saving the competitor from being eliminated before entering the ring. Even IF Said Trainer did not respond in a suitably proactive manner after being approached by OP.
And finally, OP’s last post has now taken us on a tangential path from the initial question to the COTH group about upside down spurs, and unappreciative trainers getting helpful comments from OP. OP…your query has nothing to do with a mother yelling at a daughter at some other show. That is clearly an entirely different post for comments from the COTH group.