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Thanks for the responses, Purp, I know he isn’t steady on the contact because I’m too ‘handsy’. i.e. I think I loosen the reins and probably don’t add leg when trying to move him up to a distance, or get more impulsion. (unconsciously, because I’ve been corrected for it)
Also, I know I tend to move more than I should in an effort to get him going, elbows sometimes get to flapping! So the poor boy is generous and I’m sure it is my inconsistent hands that have him confused as to where/how to seek contact with me.
I do know that I need to work on his response time to all aids, ie, leg means ‘go’, etc, so I don’t end up doing his job…not sure if any of that makes sense.[/QUOTE]
It’s a tough spot for sure. It’s all a catch 22. You can’t put a horse in a frame without them coming into the contact and you can’t get them into the contact unless you hold the bit.
People always talk about riding back to front blah blah blah.
Personally the first thing I do is pick up my reins. Then I make my horse go.
Which most people would call “backwards” riding.
But what good is adding leg if you aren’t kicking your horse up into anything?
I never expressed that way of thinking because I was embarrassed then last year I read an article by Steffen Peters and he said the same thing. “It’s all about the contact” is what he said. The article made me feel proud.
here’s a nice tid bit with a little bit of the situation addressed.
http://www.dressagedaily.com/article/steffen-peters-defines-contact-and-connection-2013-usdf-trainers-conference
I know I wrote down what he said in a journal somewhere…I"ll have to go find it.
Here is one thing I always think about when I ride (I’m almost always on 3 and 4 year olds)
I have to hold the bit still so the horse can “find” it. That’s how I teach the horse where to be.
Youngsters tend to bounce around a little bit when they are learning and if I’m bouncing around the horse will never be able to find the bit.
Sounds like maybe you need to ride with pig stickers sometimes. (that’s what I call 1 3/8" spurs) ; ) If he’s being a pig, time for pig stickers.