So there is this girl and she just started pole bending, so i thought i would help her out! She had problems like cuting her horse into the pole, riding two handed around the end poles and coming out wide, flopping her arms like a chicken…
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…And whipping her horse really hard when she wasnt even done her turn around her end pole and whipping her horse in practice! So i steped up and decided to help her… The first thing i told her is that whipping a horse in practice causes them…
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…To become flinchy and to just ignore the whip, this horse was not even resonding to the whip at this point! So then the little girl replied to me by telling me her horse needed the whip and that i new [edit] all about her horse and what he needs…
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So i left her alone… I go back to the arena the next day shes riding again. I suggest to her that if she keeps her arms still she will not give her horse mixed signals and he will run faster! She was fine with that and said k than rode away, i than …
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So i left her alone… Seriously all i was trying to do was help and i just go [edit] slammed in the face by a 12 year old
Reported.
Obviously, you need to learn how to deal with these situations. Everyone can learn more when riding, dosen’t matter if your 2 or 100, or even an olympic champion. Everyone is entitled to their own decisions, wheather it is on taking opinions from other riders, or taking lessons from a professional. She obviously does not want your help, so leave her alone. If she was paying you for lessons, then stop giving her lessons and move on.
If you continue posting in this manner: multiple posts, unreadable spelling/grammar and… how do I say it… less than positive forum posting manners, you’re probably going to be “[edit] slammed in the face” by more than just a 12 year old…
take some time, read some of the other threads to see how to communicate well in this forum. The COTH forums are a remarkable resource, but they don’t tolerate bad posting etiquette well. Just a warning. 
[h=2]noes nothing[/h]
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Wow you sound like a wonderful trainer and communicator. I do not know why things did not go well!
Report what? Im confused?
I no it just bugs me that people dont seem to want to learn they think they are good enough already but my moto is the day u die is the day u stop learning
Im sorry i had to post multiple posts im on my phone and thats the only way it would alow me to write it… And i no i have spelling grammar problems i always have!
Okay instead of making fun of me can u please tell me where i went wrong 
i honestly do not no…
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You didn’t listen to the girl. Just because she is 12 years old dosen’t mean that she has to take your advise. Back off and move on. Not everyone is going to listen. She clearly showed that she did not want your opinion so why keep trying to force your opinions on her?
To help your case, I would suggest posting from a computer so that you have 1 post and not multiple. Not to be rude, but when you speak as if you know something, it is spelt know not no. This current format suggests you are 12 years old. Again, I am only trying to help.
I wonder why riding two handed around the end pole is “wrong” in your mind?
I never touch my saddle horn when I’m gaming, unless my foot comes out of a stirrup and I have to rebalance myself and get my foot back in.
My gelding doesn’t neck rein, so if we tried running patterns one-handed, they’d be a lot sloppier than they usually are. Grabbing the saddle horn also pulls you OUT of the saddle, it doesn’t help you stay in it.
spelling does matter
The older you get, the more you realize you really don’t know that much yourself.
Keep learning.
Online, your spelling and grammar and content of your posts are all people have to judge you by. This was the online communication equivalent of wandering around in 2 sizes too small sweat pants with your hair in curlers, smoking cheap cigarettes, screaming at the dogs at the top of your lungs. I read this without any caffeine in my system and my brain just about exploded.
“smoking cheap cigarettes”…:lol: would it be better if she smoked expensive ones? And cigarettes run $12 a pack where I am, so there is no such thing as cheap cigarettes, but I liked the imagery. There’s a Raymond Chandler book somewhere there in your future.
