A friend and I were having this discussion yesterday - bless her heart, she asks me questions even though I still can’t ride my way out of a paper bag without a map, and someone holding my hand! I didn’t have the answers for her, so I thought I’d throw it out to the much wiser and more experienced folks here.
Here is her question:
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[/I][I]My horse is too obedient and adjustable. She will add up 5 strides or leave long based on just my body language. The problem is, I don’t always get it right. And I’m worried I’m teaching her to rely on me. She’s too obedient. So today I tried to just canter and not say anything and of course she missed a lot and made mistakes and I’m not sure she learned.
Does staying the same mean keeping the quality canter and ignoring the distance? Does it mean stopping riding 3 strides out and letting her adjust? What does it mean? How do I teach her to have an eye? I can’t have her relying on me. I WILL make mistakes.
Do I create a canter, keep it the same, and stay still, but what if she lengthens 3 strides out -? Is that her adjusting or do I need to keep the canter and half halt that?
That’s where I’m feeling really confused.[/I]
Can y’all help with some advice?
Thanks!!