A bit of story and some dopey beginner questions-
Im a new rider, taking weekly lessons at a h/j barn in our area. Im just starting to canter. The lesson horses are older TBs. I decided that I wanted more time in the saddle, without a teacher so I did a 2x weekly lease at a barn where my dog is welcome. The atmosphere here is great, BO is also the lessor and is available for lessons if I want. Trialriding is accessible from the property and thats a goal of mine.
So the horse is a Haflinger, its her ‘beginner male rider’ horse. He’s more than big enough to carry me and he seems to mean no actual harm to me, but he has some serious willpower. Wow. First time riding him, I put him at a trot and he decided he wanted to take the low jump. I was asking him to pass outside the jump. Nope, he wants to take it. So I steer him to the outside, with some leg. Now he’s heading sideways into the jump. So rather than go over the jump sideways I stopped steering and let him take it straight on. All was well but it’s a pattern with this guy. He has a ton of go and is fun to ride but everything is a test of wills.
I’ve always tried to be really light with my hands on horses mouths, but I’ve started pulling HARD with this guy. He doesnt like to stop so the routine is brace my seat, fix hands. Nothing. Fix seat as hars as I can, fix hands, then haul back. Then he stops. Release. Then he goes again. Remind him. Stops. Release. Starts to go again…grrr.
While trying to have a conversation at the edge of the ring, he kept deciding to hop over the low ring boundary and leave. Id circle him back, start talking again. Lather, rinse, repeat.
Even my dog was laughing at me.
So…are Haflingers stubborn monsters? Do you ride them differently than TBs? Is it just messing with me because I let it? If so how do I get to be in charge?
I was having success making him do circles and figure eights at one end of the ring but when we resumed trotting around the whole ring it would all start up again.
Its funny and interesting but also kind of exhausting and I need to figure out how to get him to cooperate with me.