My husband and I have lived in the DC area for going on 10 years now, and quite frankly, we’re tired of it. On a good week, I get 2 barn days, max, and it takes an hour with no traffic to get to my barn. I’ve been able to flex my schedule to avoid the worst traffic, but it is still a very long drive. We live very close in to be near a job he no longer has (current job based in DC but can be remote) and a job I have but don’t want anymore. Original plan was to eventually just move further out west (beyond the Dulles corridor) so I could still be close to jobs, but the property costs are just so high.
We have two kids so schools are a concern. I own one horse that I’ve had for almost 14 years, and one of my long time dreams is to be able to retire him on my own property, somewhere more affordable. We have no family or real connections in the area other than friends we’ve made here. We’re tired of the crazy cost of living and the rat race to keep up, and basically just want a change.
We want to move, but we have no idea where. Husband’s job can follow him. I want to get a new job, but most things in my current industry are heavily tied to DC so I’m thinking of just picking a place I like and trying to find a job there. It’s not a huge concern to me.
We prefer to stay somewhat on the east coast and out of extreme weather conditions. A smaller city with somewhat of an arts scene would be nice. As I mentioned before, we need decent schools, and enjoy outdoors activities in our (very limited) free time.
Easy access to horse professionals is high on the list for me. I used to event, but now just dabble with occasional lessons and small local shows. I don’t need to be near upper level riders or fancy training facilities - I’m more concerned about having good farriers, vets, etc. One of my kids rides as well, so lesson barns with good instruction would be nice too. Biggest priority though is to live somewhere where my dream of owning a small farmette for 1-2 horses is actually doable.
Please give suggestions! Or feel free to commiserate on the DC life.