I have been a Rider On My Own for about four years now. Before that, I had a great coach, great horse flesh, and rode pretty well. Then I got older, a new horse that had a lot of under saddle problems, and moved to TX.
Needless to say, my soft, forward seat has gone to crap. For years, I tried to adapt the deeper seat, thinking it would help with breaks. Then I decided to lighten my seat because nothing was working.
Now, I am working with a wonderful trainer that has done a TON for me. However, I am still struggling a bit with the forward seat. For some reason, I just can’t get through my head about the muscles and bones my trainer wants me to sit and not sit on.
I watch myself on video, and I notice that I seem off cadence and “wiggle” my butt, while having my butt tucked under me and riding on my pockets. Instead of a solid forward seat, like most of the riders I watch, I feel sloppy and wiggly and insecure.
My horse still needs a lot of work. He is working on his balance at the canter, and we are working on getting him to relax (see past threads to know more about him). He is doing great, but I feel like my seat is a huge factor to how he performs. He is very unbalanced and confident at the canter, even when being lunged. He is improving and we are getting better.
So, does anyone have any tips about drilling where my body needs to be through my head? Less butt tucked like a puppy that got spanked, and more like the wonderful, beautiful riders I see in the ring?
I am going to post two short clips from my last lesson, for reference. I would turn your volume downish. SO was standing next to trainer, and she has to yell at me so I can hear. :lol:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOmYVg3fNr8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlFdo77rvD4
There are other videos on there for your cringing pleasure, however I would like to keep our commentary to these two videos, please. The ones before these two are me without a trainer, doing ammy things, being a bad ammy rider. :eek: