Now that Spankie is cleared for turn out (see thread Proximal Suspensory Desmitis for what he just overcame) I’d like to start investigating the root of his aggression towards other horses.
When he is stalled near other horses he will lunge and kick at them through the fence. In my care (since he was 3) he has never had to worry about food or fight over it.
In the warm up ring at shows he has been known to attack other horses (poor kids that don’t understand ring etiquette or what red ribbons mean even though it’s spelled out). I joke that he thinks he’s a Calvary horse but also it’s not a joke. As long as I have enough space I can ensure he is not near other horses and I don’t have a problem.
I had him turned out with a mean little Connemara pony mare and they got along but then he started acting rude because of a gelding/mare dynamic. (This was long ago, my apologies for not being able to describe this situation as well as I can the others.)
Our other horses we are afraid for anyone getting hurt. He obviously can’t afford any extracurricular shenanigans since he’s more in a fragile transition period. No intentions on trying to change the situation immediately, maybe later 6 months to a year?
We have 17 head at home and the kicker is most of these are mini horses, ponies, and donkeys (yay pony party business!) We have some big horses with a mix of personalities. My mare Ember gets along with everyone, my wife’s gelding who is an OTTB and very kind, Happy is a recently gelded 2 year old colt and they were able to be turned out together previously. We also have a horse in for training and he’s pretty dominant. We also have a 3 year old mare that’s very bossy.
I think we all just don’t want anyone to get hurt. I think the most successful situation would be to integrate him into a larger herd. The 2 mares and 3 geldings, then adding Spankie. Anything less and I feel like any of the horses will be prone to being buddy sour.
Then there are property management dynamics. We have 2 pastures. A 1 acre pasture in front which is where he has always been turned out. Then we have a 5 acre pasture in the back, this pasture struggles because we are often in a drought and honestly having that many horses on it (even with a round bale) scares me about losing my coastal grass. It’s already so sparse.
All the minis and donks are in designated dry lot paddocks in the middle.
I feel like I have a better chance of getting the turn out situation solved before I get the warm up arena situation solved. I thought maybe he was aggressive from being in chronic pain for so many years but he still is aggressive now. One example was I was hand grazing him in the pasture and there was a mini turned out for a bit. She walked by and he pinned his ears at her, that didn’t elicit much confidence that it’s related to a pain issue.
Is this how he will always be? Do they grow out of it? Can this be worked through and overcome?