That video just makes me sad. Nick - if you actually were the high level rider you claim/want to be (without wanting to put in the work involved to get there), your only ride now would not be a lawnmower. If you were so sensational, so dedicated, and worked hard, word would get out and you might actually have regular students and do some clinics. You seem to crave the minuscule bit of attention you might get from the odd thread on this forum that pops up in response to something YOU have done… it also gives you an excuse to NOT be out there working with horses. That way you can blame “haters” or whatever other label you like to slap around (or claim that some judge said)… and not your abilities or dedication or drive to be that great rider/trainer. It has become your very convenient excuse to NOT put in the long hard hours that all of us out here actually working with horses (as in, not losers) do day in and day out. No matter how miserable the weather is or how sick/tired we are or how late it is or how much our knees/shoulders/back are bothering us… we are out there working hard.
There is nothing wrong at all with being a great dad and mowing that lawn and enjoying family and life - but it obviously bothers you enough to devote 8 minutes of that precious life to an awkward self-aggrandizing rant with even more awkward forced chuckles/laughter.
The “fake” reviews you whine about - does that include the ones using your usual verbiage and phrases? You have only yourself to blame for a lot of the comments that come your way. You used to post on threads under fake screen names to praise yourself… who does that?
And no, you are not the number one topic on this forum (who even fixates on that - or cares?) … topics rise and fall constantly - but one glance at the post count to the right of the topic titles shows that the Barisone case beats you hands down in the Dressage forum. Outside of Dressage, you have a long way to go to catch up with current threads on Safe Sport, Rich Fellers, Re-rider support, Afghanistan, Coronavirus etc.
Be that good dad. Maybe get back into horses again at some point and just enjoy them as opposed to seeing them as a tool you can use to Be Very Important. There is nothing wrong with teaching/helping beginners… and not riding a 85% Grand Prix Kur. Better yet - take some lessons (I know you think you are beyond that but even Dr. Klimke took lessons). Maybe on that schoolmaster you sneer about others riding, not realizing or understanding how much they can teach you - or show you how little you actually know.
Once upon a time, I asked you a question/sought clarification on something you were demonstrating and “teaching” on your FB page. Using my real name - not hiding behind a screen name like kellydressage or nickwasright. You were disgusted that I would dare to suggest that anything you were doing was less than perfection, did not actually want to consider the questions you claim to want, and sent me a couple of vile messages (with language befitting a drunk longshoreman) announcing that you were blocking me and letting me know that I was an idiot to not recognize your genius etc. etc. That is no way to hang out your shingle as a trainer, have stalls and students at a barn and conduct oneself like an actual horseman.
And yet for some reason that is how you wish to conduct business… by playing the victim… by berating anyone who does not praise you in the correct way…
I hope you can find the joy in horses again at some point - as opposed to seeing everything as a loser conspiracy based on non-existent jealousy…
As for me… I have a long day ahead on bad knees out there in the rain… actually working with horses. And I will not be posting a whiny rant on FB about it - or about those who seem to think I am a clueless loser. I will be putting in the time those horses need… not just whatever is convenient for me.