He says the woman should have EQ while behaving like a petulant, overtired toddler. The first domain of EQ is self awareness. He had the right to decline to engage with her at all, or at any point to stop. What he lacked was the ability to manage himself.
This is not new.
He harassed a colt into trying to attack him at RTTH. I saw that with my own eyes.
Years ago a local friend did a 2-week clinic with him and came home with a very, very angry, rather large horse with holes in both sides from spurring. She finally stopped having anything to do with him after this ‘dream realized’ of going to that ranch. She leased said angry guy to a friend who just wanted to trail ride, and he was perfectly happy to do that safely and all day long. Just don’t train on him, or he’s going UP and maybe OVER.
He is marinating in self-loathing and narcissism and alcohol and everything else.
He’s a person who has a limited vocabulary and leans on fuck this and fuck that in the place of better, more accurate words. Listen, I’m all for all the fuck this and fuck that in the world- but when it’s the ONLY adjective in your little book of words, your little book is too fucking little 
Anyone of any gender who still thinks he has anything to offer horses and humans more than a rough day and a load of rough talk, is willfully blind.