I have ridden for ever, as a kid could confidently call my leads, and usually get them. Many years of just trail riding, I never bothered about leads. Can’t remember how I was when I was back in the arena before my accident. For a few years after I mainly was walk trot, but I figure when I started cantering/loping again I must of been blessed with talented, honest horses who gave me the right lead the majority of the time,
Now I am riding the saint called Braam, and am doing Working Equitation, so need to be able to pick up either lead on request…BUT, seems I suck at asking correctly, and cannot tell which lead he is in to save my life. He is so “up” and flamboyant with his front end, I find it hard.
Seems at the moment I suck at everything…because we have moved up in our expectations of me, so no free passes.
Help, I am embarrassed at this situation, I need some input