I’m a long time lurker, first time posting though. I’m not really sure what I’m looking for other than maybe some comfort in the experience of others.
My 12 year old flame-point Siamese has been through the wringer over the past few years and we can’t seem to figure out what is wrong. He had two urinary blockages last year, second one around this time last year. In advance of that I’d noticed he wasn’t eating quite as well as he had in the past, but blood work was unremarkable. While he was hospitalized for blockage they did an abdominal ultrasound to see if there was any evidence of disease. Again nothing super conclusive, thickening of bowels, maybe some kidney impairment.
He went to internal medicine who honestly didn’t seem all that concerned. They did think he was likely painful somewhere in the abdomen and at that point they decided to keep him on gabapentin long term as it had stimulated his appetite when he had it after urinary issues.
He went back to the vet in August of last year because I thought he just didn’t seem quite right. He was crying in the night and had lost a bit of weight (down from 12.5 lbs to 11.8). At that point his vet referred him to cardiology as he had an abnormal snap blood test and a heart murmur. Cardiologist didn’t find anything wrong on echo and seemed his heart healthy.
Things seemed to be mostly ok after that, he stayed on the gabapentin and was holding his weight. In December I noticed he had a very inflamed premolar so I scheduled him for a dental, which I regret now.
He went in for the dental on Jan 26, had two extractions, but he apparently had a very rough time through the anesthesia. Took 2hrs (and Naloxone) for him to wake up. The vet advised he should not undergo anesthesia again.
He came home in extraordinary pain, the vet said not to give him pain meds for 24 hrs, though eventually after 12 and him crying and pacing/circling I gave him the buprenorphine. He seemed to recover ok once the pain was managed.
But after 2 weeks exhibited signs of urinary distress, vet gave him RX for prazosin but didn’t think he needed to go to hospital as he was still peeing. When all this was happening I thought something was wrong neurologically because he was incessantly circling and his eyes seemed dilated but I convinced myself it was pain.
Fast forward to Sunday (2 weeks later) and things just didn’t seem right. He pooped on the carpet (first time), was pacing and crying. I took him to the vet Monday.
The vet spent 30 minutes with him, going over all my many concerns. Ran blood (elevated blood glucose though vet thinks stress, everything else fine), blood pressure (elevated, 170 but thinks also stress); urine revealed infection and blood - relatively uncommon in male cats. We’ve started antibiotics but I’m really so upset that he’s been suffering with a UTI for 2 weeks and I just assumed it wasn’t possible.
During the exam, the vet raised concerns that he was blind. Now that I have him home I realize he is in fact blind, I can’t be sure but I feel like this is a newer issue (last few days). It’s so hard to watch him wandering around, almost walking into walls. He fell off the bed today. My heart is just shattering. I realize now how many things he used to do that he just isn’t doing. No scratching on his post, no looking out the window. I feel terrible.
He’s scheduled for another ultrasound next Thursday, as we think still potentially something GI (infrequent poops).
But part of me wonders if there is something bigger going on neurologically. He’s pacing/circling always, and while most the neuro tests (aside from vision) were normal, he seems so dull. He also has been holding his tail in a very strange way, it’s like it stays stiff when it should relax, or he doesn’t realize where it is. Picture with tail rigid in the air (held like this, not just caught in a picture).
I feel so guilty to have done the dental, my last cat similarly declined rapidly after a dental but I convinced myself it wouldn’t happen again.
My cat is my guy, he’s been through a lot with me and I just can’t stand not knowing what is wrong with him. I don’t feel like the quality of life is great right now, but he’s still eating and purring, just dull. I’m not sure what I’m looking for in writing this, but I’ve struggled to find support in my personal life around this (bf thinks I’m crazy, friends think he’s just an old cat). Has anyone ever dealt with something similar?
I’ve tried to do everything right for him, but feel like I failed him and I just can’t stand seeing him like this.