Groan Yesterday, I tried out a new horse for a partial lease who is a big 16.2 WB X with a huge stride & lots of experience. Unfortunately, he took an enormous L-E-A-P at a dinky little 2’ fence which, rocket launched me onto his neck, giving him the opportunity to jump around and throw me loose, flat on my back on ring floor.
My instructor was so nice about it, but I had to get back on and try it again. I was super dizzy, hurting, shaking & felt a panic attack coming on (ever so much fun for those of you who have had one.:no:). My trainer doesn’t know I get these because I am embarrassed about them, so it made it ever worse. This time, he took another long spot, but I managed to slip my reins this time and stay on.
Unfortunately, I have 2 terrible falls in the past,including 2 bad concussions, a permanent hearing loss (I wear a BTE hearing aid now), and surgery, so my confidence is totally bottomed out right now. I have been getting back into riding, after a few years off for grad school, but, in total, have been riding/competing for over 20 y. The problem is my brain is just so different than it was when I was little or a teenager. I can’t remember what it feels like to jump correctly anymore, much less quell the anxiety I get 2 strides out from a fence. My DH was very supportive, but he doesn’t ride; last night and today, I have been icing my back, swallowing Aleve and Flexeril, and feeling really, really upset.
Anybody with helpful thoughts or words of wisdom?