So, my horse and I have hit a little bit of a brick wall. He is a 6 year old warmblood cross, fabulous temperament, and a fantastic jump. Tries really hard at everything I ask him, but is natural quite anxious and of an upright, long backed build (think piebald hackney… :D) which makes it a little more difficult for him to engage and carry himself. He CAN, but if he’s off-form or I’m not really riding at my absolute best it can be very tough work.
Lately I have found that we are battling to achieve things that have in the past been easy; I feel that we will overcome this speedbump so I’m not looking for schooling tips. He has had back, tack and teeth checked and all is good on those fronts. He will also be going out to the field for a lovely time in the muck to ruin his rug (his favourite pastime) for a week or so in the coming month, and I plan on a few lessons as well over November/December.
So effectively the crux of this post is some ideas on how the two of us can have fun; I feel that I am getting overly wrapped up in him being perfect and he is getting stressed as a result. As he is young and has such a fun, curious personality, I would love to hear some suggestions of how people take a step back from just riding towards a goal and really just enjoy their horses. My yard has indoor/outdoor arenas and some access to hacking/trails via the roads. I intend to up the amount of hacking we do anyway as we both enjoy it.
He is primarily a showjumper, competing at affiliated height 1m and unaffiliated 1.10; we have done some dressage too and he excels cross country. I have my own transport so can take him out of the yard too.
Can you guys suggest any activities to break up the schooling monotony, whether ridden or on the ground, at home or away, that we can do to brighten up winter riding and bring a bit of joy back to it for both of us (particularly him)?
Suggestions so appreciated!