As a rerider it’s been one heck of a journey trying to find a good lesson barn. Started with a few failed attempts - first barn kept cancelling my lessons, second moved out of the area, the third went under because it was a train wreck from the start and the person running the program had no money along with sadly some mental health issues.
I found a new trainer at a show barn who was very highly recommended by many people on facebook. Went there for first lesson, she pairs me up with a really nice warmblood gelding who used to show in dressage. As we start the lesson in the indoor ring I notice she is smoking cigarettes while she is seated in the middle of the ring (at least ask me if I mind first!). It actually turned out to be a great lesson, she was very complimentary of my riding and said the horse and I were a great match and he was just coming off lease. I even overhead her telling someone else in the barn what a good match it was. She could offer next lesson 2 weeks from then because she would be away at a show, which was fine. I was so excited and full of confidence after that lesson! So then my next lesson which was 2 weeks later she texts me morning of the lesson saying the horse lost a shoe so can we reschedule. Ok it happens. So I try to reschedule and no response. I follow up a week later throwing out a couple of different days that I can do. Ghosted!
I’m seriously about to give up. Is this supposed to be that hard? Is it me? I’ve been at this for over 2 years and my riding is so sporadic it’s hard to progress to the point where I’d feel confident enough to lease. It’s not even fun anymore. I don’t remember these kinds of issues when I first came back to riding as an adult in 2002. I’m too old at 48 to deal with this kind of stuff. Maybe I just am too old for this and this sport is for kids.
This is kind of just a vent session but also curious if this is normal!