Yay for first time posting! I’ve been lurking on here for a while and have finally broken down and actually joined the site in order to ask my own question.
I have a 14 y/o Appendix Quarter Horse gelding and the two of us have just recently departed the hunter world in favor of dressage. Bought a very nice Wintec dressage saddle that fits him beautifully and at first he loved the change!
In fact, the first few days of a new activity is met with excitement on his part and a willingness to work. The first time we saddled up dressage was the most exciting thing I’ve ever felt with him. But I’ve felt his interest leaving the arena.
It’s been two months and he is now back to the old tactics that made me switch from hunters. He just stops. No warning, no obvious reason. He just ceases to move. And won’t. It’s almost as if he decides right then and there that we are done. Obviously, I don’t let him get away with that, but getting him back to work is a super exhausting experience that leads me frustrated and angry with him. Which I really don’t want to be.
Not only that, but getting him into a faster pace is overly complicated. He doesn’t respond well to whips or spurs (he listens but doesn’t care) so I’ve been trying a less is more kind of thing.
I have a trainer that, due to various reasons, I only see once a month or so.
When we ride with a trainer, however, he is an angel and listens to all cues within a reasonable time; which leads me to believe that the problem is mine. I know I still hunter perch and need to sit back and am working towards more length in my leg (I need a leather punch to fix my stirrup leathers), but what else could I be doing wrong? There must be something I’m doing in my seat that hinders him somehow.
Also, he gets bored faster than an ADD toddler and I some times have trouble coming up with fun ideas to throw into our rides together. He doesn’t care if there are other horses in the ring or not either.
Wow, this was long, but I really want to try and explain his (and my) issues as best as possible because I know this forum community has been helpful to others!
Here is a quick photo we took last week.