OK, this is just a rant - sorta
I’m admittedly new to riding. I’ve been riding about 5 weeks now. I ride 4 - 5 times a week. I’m getting the posting thing down and Saturday I started cantering. I had bought a really nice English saddle but it wouldn’t fit. I ordered a new one buy it won’t be in until mid July. In the interim I’ve been riding in a Aten saddle. I finally found an old used Stuben English saddle that’ll work for now. Friday night I used it for the first time. I sit differently in the Western versus the English. I feel like basically I’m starting over again. I had my first lesson Friday night and all the girl kept saying is "use more leg, use more leg. She said if she doesn’t respond bump her. Kick her if you have to. I know some of my issues are I haven’t built up enough leg strength for everything. But here’s my question. When your legs sit below the barrel of the horse how do you use your heel to direct the horse? Is it really all in the leg pressure? I don’t want to use spurs because my legs & seat aren’t stable enough yet and I don’t want to poke Chey. My other issue is Chey’s original rider for 9 years is very short and her “spot” where she reacts to very well to puts my heels up and behind my hip. I’m at a point where I’m very unsure what to do. Yes, get a trainer is an excellent idea except the barn where she is kept won’t let me bring another trainer on unless I use their trainer. OK, except I can’t get the girl (like 25 years old) to call or text me back. Just trying to squeeze her barrel doesn’t work so I’m open to suggestions. YouTube has been a big help figuring things out but I’m stumped at this point. It’s frustrating. Plus Chey, while a great horse, is also a very lazy one. So I’m open to suggestions. Thanks in advance