Mistakes were made and I am sure all of the players involved have learned about all the mistakes made and how they could have been avoided, but that doesn’t change their current situation nor does it make them bad people. While we can sit back and say that some of the things that were tried to “fix” this situation seem silly or outrageous, I know that when I am under a lot of stress and emotional, I do not make the best decisions. It’s human nature to want to try anything, especially when a situation includes your child. I get that and while I may not agree, I can’t really fault anyone for it. I feel like some of us need to remember that. It is easy to sit back and judge a situation when you are not involved.
As for the military thing, I live an hour from post and own a service business that many military people seek out. There is not one single person who has contacted me that is in the military who did not ask for a discount because of their service. As a matter of fact, it is so predominant that it is a big discussion in our industry as it’s usually the first thing that people seeking our services ask- do you offer a military discount.