i’m thrilled I did it.
When I bought my first dressage horse I went to look at some unstarted Trakehners from a nearly local breeder. I decided to get a little older and started at the time, but I absolutely fell in love with one of the youngsters who had a great personality but was going to be mammoth - and I am 5’1". I probably would have bought him if he were shorter.
I started doing research knowing some day I wanted to buy young and unstarted or barely started, and I discovered I consistently liked horses by that guy’s sire, Oskar II. There is a thread in the breeding forum here about Oskar, and after I commented on it I started corresponding with one of the breeders who at the time had a filly who was about 3 months old. Had I been in the right situation, I would have probably bought her right then. By some miracle, she was still available at 2 1/2 when I was on horse property and in a situation to be able to buy her. I knew what her two full siblings and older half brother were like, her sire had been a GP dressage horse, dam had been a hunter/jumper but had athleticism all over her bloodlines and I most often prefer jumper breeding in horses. I knew she was the hottest of her siblings, and I like heat because I tend to have a prozac-like effect on horses, I got to ride her sister who was green at the time and I was severely injured - and she just worked to try to understand what I wanted, and let out this great big sigh when she figured out what I wanted after patiently trying to figure out the response I wanted before that by giving me different answers. Ellie is much like her big sister to ride, just with a bit more of a constant “buzz” of energy running all the time - which I love.
I bought a young horse expecting to get a lot of training help and supervision, and my trainer started her and has taught me huge amounts of how to help a sensitive youngster feel safe and happy and want to work hard under saddle. I knew she was likely to mature slowly given what I saw of her relatives, and have no young horse/early goals - we are working toward GP someday, not huge scores now. So for her, we have worked on the brain and waited for the body to catch up. At 7 she isn’t quite strong enough to show second level yet, so we’re showing training and first to let her have a simple year of showing where she feels no pressure, and hopefully next year we get to show second. The only thing I haven’t liked is her heat cycle problems - she has a pain problem when she develops a follicle on her right ovary due to its location. It’s not genetic nor a problem which was predictable, and which we keep her to about 3 heat cycles/year through oxytocin use. She’s not really a surgical candidate to fix the problem, and it’s hard to see her hurting each time she goes into heat. She has taken to me and my trainer like glue when she’s hurting, sure our presence helps it feel better. I believe because of the pain issues and her preference not to eat while hurting her physical development has been even slower than it would have been normally, but the luxury of being an amateur with a desire to enjoy my horse into her 20s is that it’s not a problem.
I have been amazed that she has always had laser focus when I’ve ridden. Yes, we kept her sessions very short when she was started late in her 3 year old year, and through her 4 year old year they were still very short, but when I need to work on something on me, as long as she gets praised for her behavior she will just happily do something over and over and over if necessary for me to figure it out. When I do, she gives that same big sigh her sister did in my ride on her, and it cracks me up every time.
She also has the piaffe just about every Oskar baby did, naturally and easily, and when she was very green and would want to look outside a 20m circle she would end up doing one tempis - look out and change, bend corrected and change back, look out and change, bend corrected and change back, look out and change, etc. Now she sometimes ends up doing one tempis when we’re working on straightness and she gets confused which lead she’s supposed to be on. We’ve never intentionally gone out to school changes, but there have been many times I goofed in the transition, got the wrong lead, and asked her to switch to the lead I meant to pick up - or at the end of a lengthening I hold too much with outside rein when I try to ride shoulder fore and she switches, then switches back when I ask her. Just overall, she’s very sensitive and very responsive which I love - especially since my left leg doesn’t work properly - but she’s also just a hard working pleasure to work with. 