My mare’s eyes were the most expressive I have ever seen. I bought her sight unseen from 500 miles away for the cost of the meat on her bones. She was from a very fancy show barn and her breeding meant she was worth big bucks. But she was born with a partially blue eye. They kept her for 4 years, and decided she wasn’t worth the effort. Thankfully a friend of mine worked at the barn and had been trying to get me to get a second horse anyways … so when I was home visiting my family, I got a message that I had until 5 pm to decide, but it was after 5 when I got the message. I was distraught that I sent some poor arab mare to her grave, but my friend had taken it upon herself to assume I would do the right thing. I drove the 10 hours home a few days later to go see my new horse - and it was love at first sight. For both of us.
She was the most challenging horse I know, she made me question all I thought I knew about horses, she taught me so much about life, love and horses. 13 1/2 years later, on November 8, 2012, she decided her life was complete at 17 and it was time to say good bye.
I could always look in her eyes and just KNOW what she was feeling. Her BFF has very kind eyes, but they don’t have the depth that Ribbons’ eyes had. I miss her touch, her goofiness, her love of life, but I really miss her eyes - those windows into her soul that she shared willingly with me.
I am sorry for your loss - I grieve for Ribbons daily, but I am enriched for having her in my life and will always remember her kindness and how her eyes are the window to her soul and how she graciously shared her life with me.
Thank you for reminding me, in my sorrow, that her eyes truly were windows into her soul and I am so honored that she chose me. To all the special horses out there for each of us, Happy Thanksgiving. And to you Ribbons, you are my soul …Thank You.