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If you read other OP’s threads, perhaps, you would agree that the only suggestion she should be getting is to find an experienced horseperson to help her learning more about horses and horsemanship so that this horse does not end up for sale in a year or so (like the last one).
Not “hoping to take lessons,” but actually taking them (and building a network of trusted horse people).
She does not need a GP trainer, just someone with good base horse knowledge, who could help her to realize, for instance:
- The process of figuring “horse buttons” is best started on ground- first, in halter, then in-hand in snaffle and go from there to see what level the training is and which holes might need to be filled.
- There is a huge difference between an action of a snaffle and a curb (plus, differences within these categories). One cannot use curb like a snaffle and the snaffle is what the OP seems to be used to primarily (judging from her remark on Endurance Forum about her use of contact).
- While anatomy of horses’ mouths is generally similar, there might be enough individual difference to grant the need for a very particular bit.
Participation on a BB cannot replace a real person on the ground, especially for a relatively inexperienced horse person.
For general knowledge, even books, such as “True Horsemanship Through Feel” or B. Brannaman’s DVDs would be better. For English riding, I like Philippe Karl or Racinet, but it is not everybody’s cup of tea. For Forward Seat, that could be Littauer or G. Morris.
I am not writing this “sitting on my high horse.” When I came to the US, I quickly realized I had a lot to learn despite years spent in a well operated dressage club. The riding scene here is more varied and this variety also demonstrates itself in large selection of tack.
For instance, I only knew a snaffle and a double bridle. So, when I was introduced to a three year old QH in a gag, I was so naïve, I almost bought the animal! I never saw a bit like that before.
I was fortunate enough to have people around me, who first laughed, then helped me to get out of the deal (I went to look alone). This mistake cost me quite a bit, but it would be way worse, if I got stuck with that horse, possibly unable to improve him, and then sent him down the road.
Let me repeat that experienced horse people who one can actually regularly meet in person are indispensable (and one does not even have to agree with everything they say).
I sincerely hope, this horse is going to work out. His sale ad as a four year old describes him as a very level headed animal- a perfect one to learn ropes on.
OP, for his sake, find someone close to you, who will watch over you, while you are on your journey together. Good Luck!
ETA: If you will be looking for an English saddle for him, you will probably need wide tree, possibly a hoop tree, such as Black Country or Duett make. You can check Trumbull Mountain for some info and, if saddles are hard to find locally, you can send them tracings and they might help you to choose. In case, you liked Duetts best, I would recommend to deal with Nancy directly. It is easy to find either of these two by a simple search.[/QUOTE]
This!:yes: