Someone rekindle my hope- have you ever been able to achieve the holy grail of horse and rider fit? What does it feel like to you?
Synopsis:
Got a middle-aged Schleese (JES elite) to start. While it fits horse beautifully, I am placed perpetually behind the motion and it doesn’t offer much in terms of support. Then I got an Obrigado that looked promising and placed me more forward, but I felt like I was straddling a 2x4 on top of his back (really). Next, I sat in a bunch of Customs (evidently the only fitter that will come to my barn) for comparison, but most were long on him and put me too far back. I liked the feel and position of the Wolfgang Matrix, but the hybrid panels added bounce to the trot. Fitter is bringing more for me to try.
So. I feel obnoxiously like the princess and the pea. The consensus is that horse has large shoulders and lots of motion through his back, which makes it tricky to find a saddle that helps align me with the “sweet spot” and stay there. The feel I have in my head/desire is connected to his back, without being tipped too far back or forward (talking seat balance, not fit issues), and with a supportive seat. I sure hope it exists. Found the right trainer and the right horse…the missing piece seems to be the right saddle!