[QUOTE=Jackie Cochran;7833484]
Yes, I hear, some horses don’t like a cross-under. HOWEVER it often depends on the strength of the contact and the strength of the hand aids, if a rider is has heavy hands that do not release the rein aids it can be confusing and uncomfortable to the horse. If you ride with mostly loose reins (not on contact all the time), use gentle rein aids, and promptly release your rein aids the problems will be a lot less. Save all hard pulls or yanks for EMERGENCIES, not everyday riding.
Today I got up on the most sensitive mouthed AND most sensitive nosed horse I’ve ever ridden in 45 years of riding. I used my Dr. Cooks with the Spirit Bridle round leather cross-under parts and I had no more protests that I do using a JP eggbutt full cheek single jointed snaffle with bit loops (her selection of bit). Lets see, walk-both with and without contact–everything was fine. Trot–same, in fact she showed more impulse when I “fingered” the reins than usual. Turn on the hindquarters, backing up, turn on the forehand–everything was fine, she was light, responsive, and quite cheerful about the whole thing (I had not ridden her in over 5 weeks, 28 yr. old OPINIONATED Arab mare who always lets me know if something displeases her.)
My main protests against the side pull bridle is that it can be VERY easy to teach the horse to brace and pull against the rein aids. I have an ancient Jumping Cavesson bridle with the divided cheek pieces which works a little better that the regular side pulls, yes I can keep contact better than with a cross-under with it, but by golly when the horse decides to GO there is not much I can do about it without getting rough. The sensitive mare I referred to above likes either the Nurtural cross-under or the Dr. Cook with the Spirit round leather cross-unders bitless bridle to my Jumping cavesson, when I ride her in the Jumping Cavesson she slings her head around if I dare try to keep contact. She MUCH prefers a LIGHT HAND on the cross-under, especially with the Spirit Bridle round leather cross-unders. Yes, I did have to change my indirect rein in front of the withers, I just laid the rein against her neck without any pressure on the nose/cross-under straps, and she understood me just fine since I was also using my legs and seat to tell her what I wanted. In the Nurtural bitless bridle she will not accept much contact, but if I ride with sagging reins, use gentle, well timed hand aids, and release my aids promptly, she is fine with it.
One reason I recommend the Nurtural bitless over the Dr. Cook bitless the that the flat cross-under straps do not get twisted as much in the Nurtural, one thing the rider has to be religious about checking with the Dr. Cook’s. I do not have to worry about this with the rounded cross-under parts of the Spirit bridle reins. I had to get a different buckle on the Spirit Bridle reins so I could attach them to the Dr. Cook’s bitless bridle, but that was soooo worth it considering the mare’s response today, she was almost as responsive as she is with her favorite bit. When I tried the Dr. Cook’s on her with the original flat cross-under straps she did not like it anywhere as much.
This mare accepts the Light Rider bitless bridle fine, but does not want constant contact. She was sort of bleeh with the original Dr. Cook’s. She did.not.like. the LG bridle, and she HATED all three bitless options on the Miklem Multi-bridle. Very sensitive mare, very opinionated, elderly, creaky, and she actively protests any discomfort on her head or in her mouth.
Sorry for the long entry. I started riding bitless with my ancient Jumping Cavesson bridle over 40 years ago.[/QUOTE]
its alright I say post away! I like to see all sides of the story so to speak, and that can be hard to do when most people seem to dislike a particular product, in this case the cross-under type bridles. Which I can understand, as some horses really don’t do well with certain things. From my perspective I am trying to figure out what is going to work the best for Dolce without costing a whole lot because there is a very good chance it may not work and I have to get something else. I do have two bridles for her that it would be awesome to be able to adapt them to work, which something like the light rider has that option which is why I thought about trying those first.
However the whole bracing the neck thing with a side pull does concern me a bit. She has been known to have a very stiff neck, she often times counter bends on the lunge, and is very resistant and stiff in the neck, which we have been working on. I think a side pull may be the most similar to a halter, which is what she rode in before, but she would hang on the halter a bit when asked to first bend. There are just so many things to consider.