I worked in Vet Med for so many years, and I can’t even believe I’m writing this. However, since it’s my dog - it’s different and all logical thinking has gone out the window.
To make a long story short, my sweet, adoring, “ride or die” “emotional support animal” has a mass, likely on her heart, and it is causing causing fluid build up that is pressing against her lungs. Her days are numbered, but we don’t know how long. It could be days, but it could also be months.
We’ve elected not to do any further testing, ultrasounds, etc. We did a chest tap & radiographs yesterday to confirm the suspicions and help relieve some of the fluid off her lungs. They took off 200mls before they had to stop. We were sent home with gabapentin and told to let them know if we make a decision to let her go, but the doctor was also positive about her breathing and attitude post-chest tap.
She didn’t want to eat this morning and was super sleepy after her AM gabapentin & the chest tap yesterday. However, she is breathing so much better and seems so much more comfortable. Her little nub never stops wiggling all day when I look at her, but she always does that so I don’t feel like it’s a fair sign. She finally ate around lunch after she had a long mid-morning nap and seems to have a pep back in her step. She even went to the barn with me. They called today and offered me some Lasix, a Chinese herb, and to just check in.
I don’t feel like I know when it’s going to be time. I think I could do end of life care at home with the meds and keep her comfy, but I’m scared she will go down hill while one of us is at work and due to her condition, it won’t be a painless or quick way to go naturally. I don’t want her to suffer because I’m being selfish, but I also want as much time with her as I can. I can’t even tell anymore if she won’t leave my side because she knows I’m devastated (which is not unusual for her) or if it’s because she doesn’t feel good (also not unusual).
So how do you know when it’s the right time?