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Hands are rarely the answer. Why is the horse resisting?[/QUOTE]
I think it is very true too many people are too focused on hands/head set, but I also think people can ignore how much bad hands can screw things up. And bad hands aren’t just “rollkur” stuff - bad hands can be too loose, as well.
Hands alone, or really any aid(s) alone, are rarely the answer, it is still important to consider hands if you want a connection/contact. If a horse is resisting (and way too many variables to address - wasn’t being specific in my post to any one situation - had just seen two different trainers advise the two approaches noted) do you follow with hands, keep the hands steady and push the horse to find them, and there are other options - wider, lower, whatever? Neither trainer I saw advocated pulling or forcing a headset, but in connecting the energy from behind and getting the horse to lift their back, it was interesting to see both following the head up, so the horse can’t evade, which led to horses then lowering their heads; as well as keeping the hands lower (not lowering them more and pulling down), and pushing the horse to find that contact - both work. Does one method work better with certain resistances, or do both work as long as the rider is clear in rewarding the right answer?
I think we obsess a bit about the exact right approach, but when I think about sidesaddle, or para-athletes - I imagine those riders are not always biometrically perfect and balanced, and yet, achieve amazing results. I think if the approach is kind, and always forward-thinking (back to front), the bigger thing is consistency in telling the horse when they are trying to give the right answer.