I have a young horse who ticks all the boxes. He is 6, but was a dressage horse for 2 years. In many ways, he has a 6-year-old brain, but in other ways, he is a baby. The biggest of these young horse problems is his lead changes. He did not come with any.
My trainer has brought him along slowly and I am very happy with what she has done over the last 9 months, but she has never asked for a lead change. If he lands wrong, she trots through the corner. I have asked why she is still not setting him up for changes; she says that changes worry him and he gets heavy in her hand.
3 Days ago she set him up and asked for a change and he got very confused so she went back to trotting the corners. I fully understand his conundrum . The rules have changed and he doesnāt know why.
Now to my issue. several shows are coming up,and except for the change issue, he is ready. So far he has been to 6 little shows with 5 championships and1 reserve. Trainer wants to take him to these recognized shows, but I am not going to spend $$$$ to watch him trot his lead changes. I think that, if he can do 3 out of 4 changes then I will send him. But that means she has to work on them now, even if he gets confused for a bit.
Yes, she is the trainer (and is a good one). But I was riding at MSG before she was born and have started many babies. I would have set him up for rebalancing into the new lead, months ago.
Q: Should I " pull rank" and tell her flat out that he needs to have his changes before I spend over $1000 on a horse who will win the hack, but not get any other ribbon if he trots in the corners. If I say nothing and not explain my rationale, he might not have confirmed changes for 6 more months; sitting home when she is off to other shows If I push the issue, I know she might āfire meā and I will be left with a 1/2 finished horse who other local trainers might not take him on since this is a close-knit community.