What a way to wake up!!! Here I thought the thread got so long because Chanda was describing what had happened at the clinic…now we’ve got the ADA Equine Act!!
Everyone else is sleeping, and I am trying not to spit the coffee all over the floor, I’m laughing so hard!
OMG. Chanda. If Chase is truly that fragile, he just simply shouldn’t be a riding horse. Retire him now. Turn him out, forget him. Or wake up and admit that you have somehow micromanaged yourself into a corner. Who is your trainer? Is she nuts? Or just one of those insane dressage queens? Maybe you are trying to do the wrong discipline altogether. Would you feel the same way about Robert Dover getting on your horse? Please. You are in California. Surely there are counselers available to deal with your type of fear. Does that poor horse get turned out? Or do you protect him from that, too? Look at yourself, Chanda! You have fallen straight off your rocker!!!
And I’m trying to think…what would I POSSIBLY want to undo if the guy who DROVE ALL NIGHT ON 10 MINUTES NOTICE TO RIDE IN THE NATIONS CUP FINAL THE WEEK OF 9-11-01 rode my horse?
Talk about inspiration for not letting anything get in the way of your goals.
Don’t you have any goals anymore? Or are you afraid to set them? Come to your senses. You have spent ENOUGH time NOT doing things with that horse. Either not do it (again) or: suck it up and go to the clinic, DO EVERYTHING you are asked to (including handing over the reins if the miniscule odds of that happening go against you), and SHUT UP while you are doing it. You will live. SO will Chase.
Sorry, but you need a BIG reality check.