Sorry, yes, and thank you quietann that’s exactly what I meant. (I should not try and write when time-constrained, it always takes longer than I will think!)
To expand a bit more: I meant it as a point about the greater perils of everything being driven by money, which some parts of the eventing world are seeing more and more. The BNT shows up and demands adjustments to their convenience, or wants to monopolize the warmup, or otherwise be overly entitled, and if the show won’t play along they will take their string of students (and their $$$) elsewhere. The Eventing sub-forum has plenty of threads with first-hand accounts of this going on, although it’s certainly not all BNTs. (Possibly not all areas either.) I think there’s a lot to be said for eventing’s culture of independent horsemanship, long may it last. It’s not all at the feet of the BNTs, though, the students coming along and wanting more and more of a packaged experience are part of the equation too.
It’s all part of a larger debate about doing it for love vs doing it for money and the one-time huge divide between amateurs and professionals in horse sport. I almost made horses my entire life until the BNT I was riding with kicked my ass out and told me to go to college instead. (Still have mixed feelings about that.) Doing everything for love instead of an endless hustle for money sounds great but it ends up being elitist as all heck too. I do think big-money jumper tours and media events (hello IOC/FEI!) are driving things from the top though.