Our local general store (everything from milk and eggs to sheep fencing) has a variety of arrangements given the situation of various customers.
I cannot buy groceries or sundries and leave without paying. People on a fixed income who collect their pensions on a Friday can. My manager can get get materials to, for recent example, bulk up my fencing b/c he’s putting cattle in my upper and lower pastures, and leave without paying. When I come home in summer or at the hols, I go in the very day I land or the next day if the shop isn’t open the day I land (i.e., Wednesday after 2:00 or all day Sunday) and Tomás pulls out the sales bills written when my manager bought the materials, tots them up, and I pay them. This May my bill was just south of €650.
The point being, in businesses that are more particular than mainstream businesses like high street grocery stores, nails salons, etc., there are often a variety of actual payment practices despite there also being a generally payment policy.
People coming and going on a farm with an honour system would be much more like the general store I describe and less like your local supermarket. We have evidence that, not only did CC pay via venmo the evening after schooling, at least one other person on here does that, too. Thus, we have a pattern of some individual deviation from the stated policy for people known to Boyd (e.g., his long-term student CC).
Once again, he is allowed to change that and to require her and everyone to follow the baseline policy. He can change that whenever he wants. He can refuse to allow deviation in the first place. He can tolerate it for some but not others. Whatever he wants. That’s all well within his right and ability to tolerate or not as he sees fit.
However, once he does tolerate it for an individual, esp for over a year, if he wants to stop that and require adherence to the other policy, he simply needs to be civil in informing clients of that change before going nuclear about it, both in private and on SM.
That’s just not professional and no litany of parallel examples is ever going to make it so.
Again, Boyd can do whatever he wants re: methods/timing of payment. Literally anything he wants. And he can change at any time. But, for the good of his business and reputation going forward and for the sake of general decency within a small sporting community, he needs to do so in a mature and professional manner, without emotional freak outs and SM take downs.
No one is saying he cannot run the business and payment method as he sees fit. Many are saying he cannot speak to people the way he did via text or do the SM take downs.