In the grand scheme whatever you choose to use is pretty arbitrary, you could use snowflake and eggplant if you so wanted. Whats important is that it something that comes naturally to you and rolls off the lips without you having to think too hard about it.
Gee and Haw never felt natural to me, but “Come” (right) and “Get” (left) did, so thats what I went with.
Now in hindsight with driving being a real new discipline we’re focused on, I do regret the choice and wish I used Gee and Haw. Many moons ago when I was riding my driving horse I taught him “GIT!” as to get moving and get out of my space. When I tell him to Get now, he speeds up, which is usually fine by me anyhow I prefer to motor through a turn, but the verbal command for left really isn’t installed.
And, when I let a friend drive, she uses Come! as a motivator, for instance if we’re crossing something scary and he’s considering turning back, she’ll shout “COME! COME! COME!”. Poor little guy knows his right better than his left and he will get a bit confused in earnest.
Gee and Haw sound awkward to say if you’re not used to it, and its awkward for people to hear if they’re not used to it, so you do stick out like a sore thumb and feel silly using them… but they really are good verbals because they’re rarely - if ever - used around horses for any other purpose, so its universal.
Many moons ago my now retired grand old man used to be quite handy at pole bending, he is so short coupled and balanced and isn’t very fast but mighty quick. He’s a very forward horse, and though he knew the pattern really well, we did a lot of gaming and he knew his main job was to get us back to the finish line (usually orange cones) as fast as he possibly could.
When he’d be really revved up, if I let him step one hoof out of line while weaving the poles he’d spot those orange cones and get laser lock and just barrel towards them, no amount of pulling could bend his mighty neck and we’d go careening out of control :lol: I didn’t want to put more metal in his mouth (an I didn’t know enough at the time to learn to ride better), so I taught him “to the right!” “to the left!” and goodness it worked so well. Watchers thought us nuts, but I was able to use my voice good and loud and drown out his ability to think about much else but my instructions. We got even faster times as we were able to stay more balanced through the tight 2x changes because I wasn’t pulling him off balance with my hands ripping his face off :lol:
I had him out hand-walking today, and at age 32 he still wants to conquer the world :lol: we were walking the new trails I plan to drive this week and picking up sticks and stones. I let him get away with murder and jog ahead of me while we walk, it makes my heart so happy to see him so full of life and go go go still. When he gets ahead of me, and we need to make a sharp turn, he still remembers “to the right!” and will turn wherever I ask even though I’m being drug along like a dope on a rope (with a huge smile though).